Our mothers always taught us the magic of the words “Please” and “Thank you.” Around the holidays those words can go a long way, especially when used in a note of a appreciation for someone that has gone out of their way for you during this busy season. Ancient Egyptians wrote versions of thank you notes on pieces papyrus, but since postage stamps became readily available around 1840, their popularity has spread. During that time period, stores began selling printed notes with artwork on them and the thank you note as we know it was born, but of course we especially love the personalized note cards by Lettered Olive pictured here.

We love the idea of using a quieter week like this one to pause and say thank you to someone who has gone out of their way to help you during the holidays. A brief note is a simple, yet very meaningful way to express your gratitude. Here are a few tips:

1. Write the note by hand, on good paper or better yet, personalized stationery.

2. The salutation should be short and heartfelt.  Don’t say “Dear Cassandra” if she’s not a close friend.  Just say “Cassandra” and follow it with a dash or comma.

3. The body of the note begins with a simple expression of gratitude.  “Thank you for the lovely salad set.”  If you can follow it with a sentence spelling out how you plan to use or enjoy the gift, even better.  “I look forward to using it next time I entertain someone I’m trying to impress.”

4. Close with a friendly, informal farewell, something like, “Best wishes for the New Year,” or, “Look forward to seeing you in the New Year.”

5. And then write, “Fondly,”or “Warmly,” or “Best,” followed by your signature.

An envelope, a stamp, a mad search for an address, and you’re done!  The rewards will outweigh the effort a hundredfold, and you may even get another, better gift next year!