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Our dear friend and baker extraordinaire Jim Smeal, starting making wedding cakes in 1980 after opening a bakery with a friend in Charleston, and getting non-stop requests for his deliciously beautiful wedding cakes. We’ve been collaborating with him on cakes for Soirée brides for quite some time, and are thrilled that he took the time to answer some of the most frequently asked cake questions for our Bob Bon Blog readers.

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What should couples know before they sit down to do a cake tasting?

There are many things to keep in mind when considering what type of cake to go with, but I suggest that couples think about the reception venue first and foremost. If you’re venue is quite large, you don’t want the cake to look dwarfed in comparison, and if your reception is outside, you’ll want to keep the cake inside until the very last minute as heat, bugs, or wind could mean its demise. You should also keep wedding colors and style in mind as a traditionally decorated cake would look out of place at a modern event, and of course guest allergies can play into your decision, but don’t let it sway it completely as it’s very hard to please everyone. Just make sure guests are aware of the ingredients if that’s a concern.

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What types of cakes are you most known for?

Some of the most popular flavors are chocolate and Kahlúa or butter cake with raspberries, but I’m most known for my buttercream frosting. Many bakeries use fondant to capture a certain look for the cake, but I find that the texture and flavor of fondant can sometimes be off putting. Although buttercream can be slightly harder to work with, there’s really no replacing its delicious flavor. I also don’t like to use food coloring which is often used to color fondant. I’m a purist. If a cake calls for almond extract, I make my own. I don’t like the store bought stuff or anything that tastes fake.

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Tell us more about the grooms cake… is that still a popular tradition?

I would say that about 20-25% of our brides end up getting a groom’s cake, but I find that they are serving it at the rehearsal dinner versus the reception. It’s a great way to honor the groom on “his night.”

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What about saving a slice for your first anniversary. What’s the best way to keep it fresh?

I love this tradition, but the thought of eating a piece of cake that has been frozen for a year after sitting in the sun for six hours seems like a recipe for disaster. Instead, we make a separate tier of the cake that the couple keep for themselves without having it sit out at the reception. Everyone wins!

9.15.14   |   TARA GUÉRARD
Cakes, Reception | 1 Comment

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Your wedding day is about making the ultimate commitment to your partner, but you might find that during the planning process, you also make some great new friendships with the people helping to put your dream wedding together. Your hair and makeup team is crucial to a seamless walk down the aisle, and you need to be able to rely on them completely to help you feel your best on your big day. So in a sea of stylists, how do you find the ones that are right for you? Luckily our beauty editor Kori Mahoney is here to share some tips on the process! (image source)

  1. Ask your wedding planner for recommendations. They have generally been planning weddings in your location for quite some time, and offer a wealth of knowledge and one of the best little black books in town.
  2. If you have a hairstylist that you see on a regular basis, or someone who glams you up at the makeup counter before a big night out, ask them if they frequently do weddings or offer onsite services. Since you already trust them and they know your style, it would be an easy transition.
  3. That said, make sure you see examples of their work for more formal occasions since something that looks great for the office or a night out doesn’t always translate into the polished wedding style you’re going for.
  4. Don’t forget to ask them about their availability the day of your wedding and for any trial runs scheduled before. If they will be doing your bridesmaids’ hair and makeup as well, ask them if they have a team to help or what kind of time you should allow for if they are doing it individually.
  5. Make sure to find out about the cost for their services, especially if it includes traveling to the wedding location, or styling your bridesmaids as well. Since wedding budgets can easily add up, you won’t want to be surprised when you get the final bill.
  6. Last but not least, make sure your beauty team works well together and that your hair and makeup create one cohesive look. You might ask your hair stylist if she has a makeup artist she could recommend and vice versa to make sure they have the same style and vision. Doing a trial run will also make sure everything works well together. Pay attention to not only the overall look they provide, but also the chemistry you have with them to ensure a fun and glamorous wedding day!

 

9.04.14   |   TARA GUÉRARD
Beauty, Bridal | 2 Comments

We’re so happy to have our resident beauty editor Kori Mahoney back on the Bon Bon Blog to talk about the dos and don’ts of wedding makeup. Of course you want to look extra special on your wedding day, but it’s important to keep some key guidelines in mind so you don’t make mistakes that will haunt you for years to come. Nobody wants an Oompa Loompa in their wedding photos…

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1. Whites, creams, ecrus can leave a bride feeling washed out. DO consider a subtle spray tan. If you are a porcelain goddess, DON’T dial it up to bahama bronze; moderation is key here. (Photo by Liz Banfield of a Soirée bride)

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2. The look of lash extensions can be amazing. DO your research and check out examples of the makeup artist’s work. DON’T opt for pricey and distracting spider legs. Again, it’s all about moderation. (image source)

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3. Brides, a tattoo shoutout! DO alert your artist if your intention is to have it fully covered. This will require additional time that day and special product that may or may not have a permanent home in your makeup artist’s kit. (image source)

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4. DON’T crash diet. As we age and lose weight rapidly, our face loses volume and looks (gasp!) older. DO have dessert! (Photo of Soirée bridesmaids)

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5. DO schedule a run through with the hair and makeup team and trust them. DON’T base opinions solely on a Google search. Personal connection is super important. (image source)

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6. DO schedule waxings, facials, and haircuts (based of course on your stylist’s recommendation at run through) two weeks prior to the wedding to avoid breakouts, redness, overwaxing or other mishaps. DON’T rush into radical change. (image source)

Have fun with your makeup and don’t be afraid to experiment with your look on this very special day, but to prevent a beauty blunder, keep these guidelines in mind!

8.11.14   |   TARA GUÉRARD
Beauty, Bridal, Bridal Style | 1 Comment