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Tara Guerard Soiree by Liz Banfield

Today on the bride to bride series, we have a special “professional” version, as our bride is a photographer in the wedding industry!  We had worked with her on several events, but this was our greatest collaboration to date, and we were so honored that Gayle Brooker entrusted us when planning her big day.  Having also assisted Liz Banfield on many wedding shoots, she couldn’t imagine not having her there to capture it all.

Tara Guerard Soiree by Liz Banfield

What was your favorite part of planning your wedding?

My favorite part was in the beginning when I was first seeking out inspiration. I looked everywhere and at everything. I found great inspiration from window displays and interior design magazines and books. Then I passed it all over to Soiree and they made the magic happen.

Tara Guerard Soiree by Liz Banfield

What was the biggest challenge during the planning process?

My mom really wanted to be apart of the planning and I think that was the hardest part. Helping her let go and hand it over to the professionals.

Tara Guerard Soiree by Liz Banfield

What do you miss the most now that it is over?

Since most of our friends and family live in different cities and states, it was so special to have them all here for our wedding weekend. There was so much love and support that surrounded us all at once.

Tara Guerard Soiree by Liz Banfield

What is the moment that when you think back on your wedding you remember the most?

Saying my vows and hearing the sounds of the paper butterflies blowing above us and the quiet moment alone Neilson and I took right at sunset.

Tara Guerard Soiree by Liz Banfield

Is there anything you would do over and what? Would you wear the same dress?

I would make sure my parents were right by the exit car to say goodbye to them and thank them at that last moment for the incredible weekend. Yes, I would probably wear the same dress but I would do my hair differently – closer to how I normally wear it.

Tara Guerard Soiree by Liz Banfield

Neilson and I were engaged on October 30, 2009. We went out in the morning on the boat to Caper’s Island for a picnic and I thought he was going to ask me out there but he did not. When we arrived back home, I opened the front door and the dogs were jumping all around excited to see us and there sat, in the middle of the foyer, a beautiful wooden box that he had made on top of stool. I picked up the box and turned around and there he was on his knee asking me to marry him. It was a perfect way for him to ask me – in our house, where we fell in love, with our dogs all around. We were married in April of 2010 at Lowndes Grove Plantation in Charleston, South Carolina.

Tara Guerard Soiree by Liz Banfield

2.23.16   |   TARA GUÉRARD
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Tara Guerard Soiree by Perry Vaile

We’re asking some of our past brides about teachable moments during their  process, hoping to help anyone else going through the ups and downs of planning now!

What was your favorite part of planning your wedding?

My favorite part in planning was experiencing a world of beautiful, beautiful things. From a few visits to Palmetto Bluff, to tasting
lovely eats for the reception, as a bride, I had no idea I’d be so
warmly invited into an exquisite industry I knew nothing about. And
let me tell you the beautiful world of weddings is pretty epic.

Tara Guerard Soiree by Perry VaileWhat was the biggest challenge during the planning process?

My biggest challenge was managing the process, emotionally. With
heightened bridal senses, small things can feel gargantuan every now
and then.

Tara Guerard Soiree by Perry Vaile

What do you miss the most now that it is over?

 I really, really, really miss the friends I made. From my
photographer turned best friend, Perry Adams of Perry Vaile
Photography, to gown designer, Katherine McDonald, to the rockstar
chick that helped me get dressed, Cacky Rivers from Cacky’s Bride +
Aid, I made lifelong friends.Seriously. I also miss working so closely
with Meg, Tarah, Molly, Abbie, and big T (Tara G) given they kind of
made it happen and we became TIGHT during that wedding planning
process! I wanted to be an easy bride for that incredible team.

Tara Guerard Soiree by Perry Vaile

Is there anything you would do over and what? Would you wear the same dress?

This sounds bananas, and please feel free to judge me, but I would
shorten our honeymoon from 7 to 5 days (St. Barths was piping hot in
June and we were not prepared). Heck no to the techno I could never
change my dress. I still dream about wearing that awesome frock.
Except now I’m 7 months pregnant, so things fit a little differently.

Tara Guerard Soiree by Perry Vaile

Can you please give a brief description of your engagement? 

During our 11 month engagement, Wyatt and I lived in different
states for job opportunities. He, NY and I, NC. I think this made our
upcoming wedding, to us, even more exciting.

Tara Guerard Soiree by Perry VaileCaroline and Wyatt were married May 30, 2015 at Palmetto Bluff. Stay tuned here to see more lovely details from their Soiree on Wedding Wednesday.

2.09.16   |   TARA GUÉRARD
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